Essays
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Occasional pieces rather than a blog — long enough to develop an argument, and written to be read slowly.
- Why dating feels exhausting Modern dating asks people to do something that humans historically almost never had to do: repeatedly meet complete strangers and … March 5, 2026 · 3 min read 01
- First principles: life coaching Life coaching has grown quickly as a field, and with that growth has come confusion. Many people do not know where coaching ends a… March 4, 2026 · 3 min read 02
- Standing on the backs of giants None of this exists in isolation. Anything I say about the nervous system, regulation, attachment, or relational behaviour stands … February 27, 2026 · 2 min read 03